Hey gals it's been a few days I have posted. I think probably a week I am not sure. I am at the moment really busy with work and with school. That I hardly have to time to log in. I wanted to keep you girls updated on what has been going on. Anyway I did a little hauling I bough a revlon blush from the new collection (I forgot the name LOL). I also bought the special edition VGVI special edition lipglass. I you have oyster girl, cultured or dreamy you don't need this. It's not a one of a kind!. Well I also needed to vent this. This is an update on my "love life" As most of you have read on my previous posts about the guy that I have been kinda seeing. Things have been a bit slow. He apologyzed for not calling and he told me what was going on. Since he is and advisor and is involved in poilitics and now it's the primaries well he is busy. To me that's not an excuse. Anyway he was able to contact me on Saturday and we went out. Well that night we went out to a restaurant had a few drinks, ended up kissing and sleeping together later on that night :eek: . The next morning we went to eat breakfast together and he said he would call me that night and he did. Ok were is the problem! that he has kept his contact once again thru email. I think he should be able to call me. That after what happened we should be taking a step foward not back! by starting again with the emails I feel we are doing just that. I check my mail at work and the school computers blocked facebook. So I asked him not to mail me anymore because I wasn't going to able to check the email. I don't know what issues he has with calling people. I am really busy at the moment and I don't want this to interfere with my life. With school I have worked so hard to achieve my goals. I don't want to end up being his bed buddy and end up pregnant. I am 28 and have achieved so much! because I have taken care of myself very well. I have tought of calling him tonight and asking him what I shoud expect of him? where do we stand? If he wasnt to get to know me better he should start by calling me. Atleast so we can start building on something. Anyway I am really bummed about this. But I have to deal with it because I have to work and study. I have to pass my comprehensives. I have worked so hard and I won't let a guy or a situation with a guy affect me. I can't let it. Any thoughts??

I understand that you're upset but you know, some people just don't like the phone, like me...;) Good Luck! :)

Some people do have a big phone adversion...at least he's contacting you! Try to see the positive in it. Also, perhaps if he's on the job he cannot make personal calls but is able to send a quick e-mail. I hope things go well!

I'm one of those people who hate talking on the phone. I don't even like talking to people I really know well, muchless people I hardly know. It's a weird hang-up, I know. I hope you get things worked out, Keishla.

I hate talking on the phone and avoid it as much as possible. Try not to worry about it too much. :)

Hmmmm I would just let things happen naturally. Just sit back & let him take charge of the communication...you seem to have plenty of stuff going on to not need to be worried about a guy, so put yourself 1st & if he wants to keep things going, he will make more effort, & if not, it's his loss ;)

I think you girls are correct I shouldn't worry about it too much. At the end it's true his loss not mine. I just kinda felt bummed and dumb because I did sleep with him. It just happened. It wasn't planed or anything. I just expected a little more after that. But I should know better.

I think you girls are correct I shouldn't worry about it too much. At the end it's true his loss not mine. I just kinda felt bummed and dumb because I did sleep with him. It just happened. It wasn't planed or anything. I just expected a little more after that. But I should know better.

Ah hell... we all have a moment like that at some point.
*hugs you*

Hope you're feeling better soon!

Ah hell... we all have a moment like that at some point.
*hugs you*

Hope you're feeling better soon!
thanks I really needed the hug. I do still feel kinda bummed. If I hadn't slept with him I wouldn't feel so crummy.