I'm interested in purchasing some EM eyeshadows and was wondering if anyone had any recommendations or ones to avoid...

I'm especially interested in ones like hot chocolate and baby bath...fairly neutral colors that are easy to wear daily.

I love Hot Chocolate & On the Phone. I use them practically every day! My sister likes Good Chine & Spin Cycle (both of which are more on the pinkish beigey side, which she can pull off better than I can).

Good China is gorgeous!

Birdhouse is a spunky reddish brown neutral.

In The Garden is a gorgeous brown-green with a golden shine. It's one of my favourites for smokey eye looks and lining.

I love:
Oasis - shimmery gold/light bronze
Hot Chocolate - light taupey beige, slight shimmer
Spin Cycle - pale pinky/beige highlight
In the Garden - bronze-brown w/ slight greenish tones, shimmery
Cypress - warm olivey green - sounds weird, but it's neutral enough to go w/ alot

Some others I remembered (I have way too many shadows!)

I liked Spin Cycle and Pots n' Pans too...
Mystic Night is a wicked dark sparkley purple that I use for lining.
Chamomile is a great pale gold, I use it for highlights a fair bit.